Educating children from an early age
From an early age it is important to explain your children what it means to hurt and to torture someone.
Parents don’t usually think about that because most of them assume that their children will behave, but you can never know that. That’s why it is extremely important for you to do some things in order to prevent any potential problem.
First and foremost is to give your kids unconditional love and attention. Every child needs love, commitment and strong relationship with their parents.
They need to feel safe and protected and home is the first place that can give them that kind of feeling.
Most aggressive children are acting that way, because they didn’t have enough love and attention at home, which is why they don’t know any better.
Also it is crucial that your kid is supervised, because only then you will be able to control everything he/she does.
Of course you should do that when your kid is small and still not independent. When your kid is small you must be with him/her all the time, and if you cannot do that, then you should hire someone you trust (such as grandparents, cousin, brother/sister) who can watch over your child.
If your kid is old enough to go to school you should encourage him/her to participate in after-school activities, because in that way your child will learn how to respect and love others and will simply socialize, which is really important.
You should be their role model, because majority of children look up to their parents, so be careful what you’re doing.
Give him/her a good example, because if you do, your kid will be able to adopt these manners and will become a good person.